how do u love

How can you love someone that tries to control everything you do? She tells you she doesnt like the way you dress, that your hair is disgusting, that she wishes your dressed more.. well manly. She also tells you who you cant talk.Why wont she just say she hates "You". No She Couldnt because she "loves" you. If she truely loved you then she would have enough self confidence to realize that no matter what you will never leave her side. But you still cant help but wounder why she treats you this way. Your nothing but nice to her and you treat her like fragile glass. But why cant she be nice to you? Maybe one day she will realize that she has your heart and you have hers and nothing could ever break that connection of true love.